This was a tour of an older section of Singapore that I was able to take with some of the women in the American Women's Association. We visited a Muslim temple (yellow above) where they have a direct descendant of Mohamed buried and two Chinese temples. At the second Chinese temple we saw a ghost wedding. Here are some details our guide provided during the ceremony. The weddings are for people who have died before marrying age. For example, if a child dies at 5 then they believe that it is possible for that person to grow up in a realm similar to purgatory but for them they are waiting for their reincarnation. In that time they might meet a person and fall in love so then when they become an acceptable age to marry they would visit their parents in a dream to ask for their blessing. The parents who were visited would find the other child's parents and tell them of their dream. They would then decide together whether it is a suitable match. The wedding ceremony is similar to any Chinese wedding with lots of food and all of the same traditions. I would have liked to take pictures to show all of the food they had for no one to eat and everything else but it is not allowed because it is bad luck for the dead to be captured on film! Very interesting experience! 
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